Marriage
Traditional Judaism considers the hair of a married woman erotic. As a result, married Jewish women are generally expected to cover their hair, except in front of her husbands, and sometimes in the company of other women. For most of Jewish history this practice was not disputed - mainly because society at large also considered it immodest for women to let their hair down in its city streets. However, as the general definition of modesty has changed in the last two centuries, Jewish women have followed suit, debating the necessity of covering their hair in a world that remains 'uncovered.' Today, most observant, married Jewish women cover their hair in some way although a vocal minority declines to do so at all. Hair covering has, therefore, become the bellwether for religiosity, turning practice into politics. Sources dispute the when,
Committed Marriage:A Guide To Finding A Soul Mate And Building A Relationshi
In our turbulent world, it sometimes seems difficult to forge and maintain the bonds of a committed, loving relationship. In The Committed Marriage, Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis, esteemed teacher, counselor, and matchmaker, helps even the most pressured modern couples find harmony and unity, guided by the timeless wisdom of the Torah. Starting with the first stagesof finding a soul mate, and continuing through the challenge of learning to communicate with compassion and understanding, whether debating parenting issues or how to grow old in harmony, these real-life success stories reflect the practicality and endurance of traditional values. The anecdotes and true-life stories will speak to your heart and mind, while the Rebbetzin's faith and depth of understanding will inspire you and strengthen your marriage.
The central theme of this book is modesty, a notion so simple and common that most of us would dismiss it as irrelevant to our daily lives. But Rabbi Manis Friedman asks us to look again. And as we do he explains, clearly and succinctly, how modesty can become a powerful tool for change. Gently and with humor, Rabbi Friedman helps us redirect our thinking about sexuality and refocus our ideas about intimacy. In so doing, he moves us toward a truer understanding of ourselves and how we can cope with the changing world around us.
Shanah Rishonah: Build Your Dream Mazel tov! The engagement was glorious, the wedding was a joy. Now comes that magical, mysterious, and crucial time, shanah rishonah, the first year of marriage, when two separate people learn to become one beautiful new entity, to create the strong, enduring and happy home they long to build. Guess what? It's not always easy. He's punctual and orderly, you're a creative free spirit. Your family sat down to a full dinner every night, his mom orders takeout. He says one thing - and you hear another. You were destined for each other from before you were born, but how do two such different people learn to live together in harmony? In From Me to We: A guide to the first year of marriage... and beyond more than 50 wise, wonderful and experienced women (and some men too!) share their memories of shanah rishonah, the lessons learned, the adventures and misadventures of that unforgettable first year of marriage. It's all here: realistic, and unrealistic, expectations; how to communicate so that your spouse really hears you; how to fight right; starting out married life in Eretz Yisrael; dealing with mothers-in-law; what happens when you're expecting during the first year, and what happens when you're not. Here are stories, a good dose of humor, plenty of practical advice, and a deep understanding of every kallah's hopes and fears, doubts and dreams. In your shanah rishonah you leave "kallah la-la-land" to something so much richer - a shared life, a bayis ne'man b'Yisrael. This book will help make that journey into the joyful and exciting adventure it should be. |
Halichos Bas Yisrael: A Woman's Guide to Jewish Observance Vol I & II Hardcove
What should a woman do if she misses a tefillah?
What is a woman's obligation in Torah study
Is an unmarried woman obligated to light Shabbos candles?
An all-time bestseller on halachah for women by a seasoned Rav and posek, this sefer is accepted as one of the foremost halachic guidebooks for the English-speaking public. For two decades, women have turned to it for clear, incisive rulings on a wide variety of issues.
Now back in print, Halichos Bas Yisrael is presented in this special edition, with two volumes in one for extra convenience. Practical and authoritative, it provides classic and contemporary halachic rulings pertaining specifically to women on every aspect of their daily mitzvah performance: prayer, modesty, yichud, berachos, cosmetics, mourning, Torah study, child-rearing, challah, Shabbos, and Yom Tov . An indispensable reference guide for every Jewish woman, this sefer deserves a place on the bookshelf in every Jewish home.
Translation to English of Bayit Meushar (Hebrew). This book is suitable for every household. Even in a home where domestic harmony reigns, there is always room for improvement and a chance to enrich the situation even further - because goodness has no limits. The Rebbe's suggestions for domestic peace and harmony that are featured here are responses to real-lie situations, to people who have asked his advice regarding various dilemmas and hardships that they have encountered. Written by Rabbi Ze'ev Ritterman, author of Ohr Habayis in Hebrew and Mikveh in English.
Living Emunah on Shidduchim: Searching for the Right One with Serenity and Faith
Rabbi David Ashear, originator and author of the Living Emunah series, brings his unforgettable emunah insights and stories to one of the most important – and often most stressful – parts of our lives: finding a shidduch for our children or for ourselves.
How can we stay calm and tranquil when the wait to find a shidduch for ourselves or our loved ones sometimes seems almost endless? How should a person react in the face of disappointment? With sensitivity, compassion, and – of course! – emunah, Living Emunah on Shidduchim offers Torah insights and powerful stories to guide us through the “parashah” of shidduchim.
With more than 300,000 copies in print, the Living Emunah series has touched so many lives. In Living Emunah on Shidduchim Rabbi Ashear shows us how everyone involved in the world of shidduchim – parents, friends, shadchanim, and, of course, those waiting for their basherte -- can turn a challenging and tense time into a vehicle for growth, tranquility, and ever-strengthening emunah.
We all crave intimacy. It's essential to our emotional and spiritual health, and without it we don't feel whole. Yet today our culture faces an intimacy crisis. Many of us, even when we're in a committed relationship, still feel painfully alone.
For more than four decades, world-renowned author, counselor, and teacher Manis Friedman has empowered couples to successfully navigate their own intimacy issues and replace loneliness and unfulfilled expectations with a deeply soulful and satisfying relationship. In this refreshingly frank, sensible, and at times humorous guide, Rabbi Friedman and Ricardo Adler share the deeper truths at the heart of our longing for intimacy along with practical wisdom from Jewish tradition – insights anyone can use to recapture passion, save their relationship, and tap into the essence of the true intimate experience.
One by one, The Joy of Intimacyexposes the myths about love, sex, and intimacy that separate rather than bring us together and shows how to overcome the greatest obstacles to a healthy intimate relationship. You'll explore secrets to preserving your natural spontaneity, setting the mood for intimacy, and making your bedroom a sacred space. You'll also learn how to increase your sensitivity to the sacred experience of oneness that has the power to transform every aspect of your marriage and nourish all those around you.
Whether you are married or single, in a relationship or seeking to create one that is both meaningful and lasting, The Joy of Intimacy will give you the skills and confidence you need to keep your relationship alive, fresh, and fulfilling.
First published in Hebrew in 2002, THE MARRIAGE COVENANT (Ish Ve-Isha) has become a popular and respected guide for men and women approaching marriage and for newlywed couples. This volume discusses weddings, the marital relationship, sexuality, and childbirth in clear and understandable language. It presents halakhic guidelines and rulings in accordance with the standard, authoritative sources, along with traditions, customs, and sound advice. Addressing itself to couples living in contemporary society, THE MARRIAGE COVENANT goes beyond theoretical halakha to answer practical questions that arise in daily life. Unique for a work of its kind, this book also addresses the emotional and psychological challenges of marriage. It illustrates how two independent and mature individuals can learn to live together and create a mutually respectful, loving, and satisfying relationship that enriches their own lives and the lives of those around them. Includes a 56 page (soft cover) supplement: "A Guide to Marital Relations from a Torah Perspective".
It's a question many young singles have asked themselves at one point or another. Here are some very convincing answers to the question. Author Doron Kornbluth presents some hard-and-fast evidence that will educate and enlighten. Citing dozens of research studies, he shows how inter-faith marriages affect not only the couple's relationship, but their children's futures, their family dynamics, and their own personal happiness. This is an intellectually stimulating, eye-opening book that will challenge you to think deeper about who you are--and what you want from life.
A Jewish marriage is about husband and wife becoming one - united in mind, spirit, and purpose. But men and women are so different! How can they possibly bridge the gaps between them?
In Your Wife, Yourself, noted author and educator Rabbi Dovid Rosman offers men the keys to an incredible marriage. Drawing on the Torah's timeless wisdom, Rabbi Rosman's insightful, practical guidance will transform your relationship with your wife, paving the way to greater marital happiness than you ever thought possible.
No matter how long you've been married - or even if you're just preparing for marriage - Your Wife, Yourself will change your life.