Let's be honest: It happens. Many a couple lose the spirit that they felt at their chasunah. All too often, things get stale.
How do we find the joy in our marriages, once again? How do we regenerate the spirit? How do we become better spouses? How does the oneness of the phenomenon of ishto kigufo and baalah kigufah proliferate?
Many words of mussar are inevitably distant from us. Too delicate and fragile to allow such words to permeate our being, we build mental walls of protection around ourselves that are impenetrable. In truth, these are not walls that protect us. They are destructive and debilitating as they outlaw change and rejuvenation. They are particularly damaging when they impinge on the delicate relationship of marriage.
What does work?
Rabbi Yehoshua Kurland is a renowned educator and bestselling author who, for decades, has successfully penetrated hearts and broken through barriers with his inimitable style of teaching. His genius lies in his ability to share deep and powerful messages in conjunction with humorous stories and jokes in the spirit of the classic Talmudic milsa d'bidichusa.
Through his wit, we become open to his teachings.
Through his wisdom, we become open to change and inspiration.
It is time to re-discover simchah in our marriages.
It is time to celebrate our lives together and the symphony of marriage.
It is time to recognize that the happiness we felt under the chupah can last a lifetime and that indeed, it is always: A Time to Dance.
Traditional Judaism considers the hair of a married woman erotic. As a result, married Jewish women are generally expected to cover their hair, except in front of her husbands, and sometimes in the company of other women. For most of Jewish history this practice was not disputed - mainly because society at large also considered it immodest for women to let their hair down in its city streets. However, as the general definition of modesty has changed in the last two centuries, Jewish women have followed suit, debating the necessity of covering their hair in a world that remains 'uncovered.' Today, most observant, married Jewish women cover their hair in some way although a vocal minority declines to do so at all. Hair covering has, therefore, become the bellwether for religiosity, turning practice into politics. Sources dispute the when,
The central theme of this book is modesty, a notion so simple and common that most of us would dismiss it as irrelevant to our daily lives. But Rabbi Manis Friedman asks us to look again. And as we do he explains, clearly and succinctly, how modesty can become a powerful tool for change. Gently and with humor, Rabbi Friedman helps us redirect our thinking about sexuality and refocus our ideas about intimacy. In so doing, he moves us toward a truer understanding of ourselves and how we can cope with the changing world around us.
The central theme of this book is modesty, a notion so simple and common that most of us would dismiss it as irrelevant to our daily lives. But Rabbi Manis Friedman asks us to look again. And as we do he explains, clearly and succinctly, how modesty can become a powerful tool for change. Gently and with humor, Rabbi Friedman helps us redirect our thinking about sexuality and refocus our ideas about intimacy. In so doing, he moves us toward a truer understanding of ourselves and how we can cope with the changing world around us.
Halichos Bas Yisrael: A Woman's Guide to Jewish Observance Vol I & II Hardcove
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An all-time bestseller on halachah for women by a seasoned Rav and posek, this sefer is accepted as one of the foremost halachic guidebooks for the English-speaking public. For two decades, women have turned to it for clear, incisive rulings on a wide variety of issues.
Now back in print, Halichos Bas Yisrael is presented in this special edition, with two volumes in one for extra convenience. Practical and authoritative, it provides classic and contemporary halachic rulings pertaining specifically to women on every aspect of their daily mitzvah performance: prayer, modesty, yichud, berachos, cosmetics, mourning, Torah study, child-rearing, challah, Shabbos, and Yom Tov . An indispensable reference guide for every Jewish woman, this sefer deserves a place on the bookshelf in every Jewish home.
Translation to English of Bayit Meushar (Hebrew). This book is suitable for every household. Even in a home where domestic harmony reigns, there is always room for improvement and a chance to enrich the situation even further - because goodness has no limits. The Rebbe's suggestions for domestic peace and harmony that are featured here are responses to real-lie situations, to people who have asked his advice regarding various dilemmas and hardships that they have encountered. Written by Rabbi Ze'ev Ritterman, author of Ohr Habayis in Hebrew and Mikveh in English.
Forthright and frank, yet respectful and sensitive, I Am for My Beloved: A Guide to Enhanced Intimacy for Married Couples will help couples enrich their marital and sexual lives, and maintain passion and intimacy within the framework of Jewish tradition. Written by two Orthodox Jewish sex therapists with over 50 years combined experience, I Am for My Beloved conveys essential information about intimacy, sexual anatomy and physiology, sex within the life cycle, and Jewish values and attitudes towards sex - with an informative and practical approach. The information provided in this book will enable couples to enjoy a more open and fulfilling intimate connection, both emotionally and physically.
For 22 years, Chana Levitan has been educating, mentoring, and enlightening people about how to find real potential in their relationships. Her classes on the topic are standing-room only. With this book, she is finally sharing her knowledge with a bigger audience. You ll find a smart, clear relationship guide with 10 essential questions that need to be asked before and during the dating process in order to spot long-term potential. Filled with real-life anecdotes and insightful dating advice, these chapters will help you better understand yourself and what you really need to succeed in building a loving marriage. There is no rule that heartbreak must be a prerequisite for good judgment! I Only Want to Get Married Once will help you get it right the first time and gain the confidence to steer through the decision making process of dating.
For 22 years, Chana Levitan has been educating, mentoring, and enlightening people about how to find real potential in their relationships. Her classes on the topic are standing-room only.
With this book, she is finally sharing her knowledge with a bigger audience. You’ll find a smart, clear relationship guide with 10 essential questions that need to be asked before – and during – the dating process in order to spot long-term potential. Filled with real-life anecdotes and insightful dating advice, these chapters will help you better understand yourself and what you really need to succeed in building a loving marriage.
There is no rule that heartbreak must be a prerequisite for good judgment!
I Only Want to Get Married Once will help you get it right the first time and gain the confidence to steer through the decision-making process of dating.
Reviews:
“Chana Levitan’s book is better than a marriage counselor…. A must-read for every single person, whether you are dating, divorced or just dreaming of marriage. Do it right the first time and you won’t need a do-over.”
Jennifer M. Granholm, Governor of Michigan
“Indispensable tools [for] a marriage that will withstand the hurricane-force winds of today’s culture. ’Must’ reading for young people, older people, dating couples and married couples, parents, in-laws, clergy and therapists….”
Dr. Abraham Twerski,
author; former clinical director,
Department of Psychiatry, St. Francis Hospital, Pittsburgh
“Brings remarkable clarity to the mystifying world of love and marriage…. I have no doubt that reading this important book and answering its critical and challenging ‘10 Questions’ will save many from a painful divorce.”
Andy Meisner, Treasurer, Oakland County,
Michigan; former Assistant Democratic Leader, Michigan House of Representatives
“A treasure trove of invaluable information on how to ‘get it right the first time.’ …The discussion of the difference between infatuation and love is alone worth the price of the book…. Read this book and save yourself from the heartache of getting it wrong over and over again.”
Dr. Judith Mishell,
clinical psychologist, co-author of Beyond Your Ego
A leading rabbinic authority summarizes the Jewish view of marriage and explores the customs, practices, and symbols of the traditional wedding ceremony. Jewish law is also applied to such topics as premarital sex, homosexuality, and intermarriage.
Machzor L'Yom HaChuppah Ashkenaz White [Hardcover]
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Contains every tefillah a Choson or Kallah would need on the day of their wedding. Included are additional tefillos, halachos, and minhagim for weddings.
Binding: Hardcover
Size: 4.5" x 5.5"
Pages: 376
Nusach: Ashkenaz
Color: White
It's a question many young singles have asked themselves at one point or another. Here are some very convincing answers to the question. Author Doron Kornbluth presents some hard-and-fast evidence that will educate and enlighten. Citing dozens of research studies, he shows how inter-faith marriages affect not only the couple's relationship, but their children's futures, their family dynamics, and their own personal happiness. This is an intellectually stimulating, eye-opening book that will challenge you to think deeper about who you are--and what you want from life.
A Jewish marriage is about husband and wife becoming one - united in mind, spirit, and purpose. But men and women are so different! How can they possibly bridge the gaps between them?
In Your Wife, Yourself, noted author and educator Rabbi Dovid Rosman offers men the keys to an incredible marriage. Drawing on the Torah's timeless wisdom, Rabbi Rosman's insightful, practical guidance will transform your relationship with your wife, paving the way to greater marital happiness than you ever thought possible.
No matter how long you've been married - or even if you're just preparing for marriage - Your Wife, Yourself will change your life.
How many times have you had to speak at a Sheva Brachos and did not have what to say? Fear not! Salvation is here in this collection of messages, tied to the weekly parashah, by a who's who of rabbis and laymen.